I understand that I need to look for “POPs” or Persons of Peace / Prepared Open People,
but how do I find them
and how do I recognize them?
In our previous blog, "Persons of Peace: 1. What are they?" we discovered what Persons of Peace are and why they are part of Jesus’ strategy for spreading the good news of the kingdom. We saw from biblical examples and modern stories that…
- They can be unbelievers, pre-believers, new believers or established believers
- They are local, networked people
- They are being prepared by God in very different ways
o Through sickness and a sense of need
o Through a sense of inadequacy
o Through their own lives being changed
- They reduce exponentially the amount of time it takes to penetrate a new area
- They already know the people and the culture we are trying to reach
- The people we are targeting will listen to them, either because they are so changed, or because they are respected and “worthy” people.
But how do we find them?
When we go into a new place, we don’t usually know who the connected people are who will open doors for us, and often the ones we think will be our POP’s end up being unhelpful and closed to our message.
In my blog on “Journeying toward Christ” (https://www.goandplant.com/journeying-toward-christ), I was talking with a worker in Southeast Asia who was trying to reach into a Muslim community. He and his team had been in their location for 7 years with very little fruit. They had tried to become part of the community life and to build relationships for a number of years with the kinds of people they thought would be Persons of Peace, receptive to the message and connected in the community. They discovered that, very often, the people that they had invested so much time in relationally were closed and uninterested once they began to share the gospel. In all that time, they had bypassed many people by spending all their time on their narrower focus of people they assumed or hoped would come through in the long run as their persons of peace.
As we move into a new area, we don’t know up front who those people will be. We have to use multiple approaches
to find them. This team in S.E. Asia made the decision that, while they still built relationships with some, they would start sharing the gospel up front with the many
in order to find the few
who were already prepared by God. Then they would focus their relational time on those who were prepared already by God and open to their message, and they would use those relationships as bridges into the community. They determined to start early with the gospel, and that would help them filter out who might and might not be receptive and supportive. Instead of starting with relationships and moving to the gospel, they decided to start with the gospel and move with the responsive into relationships with the responsive or open ones.
This seems to be a method often used by the apostle Paul
in his ministry. He would go and preach the gospel to a group or to a synagogue. Out of that group, people would often be divided into the “opposers”
and the “adopters.”
He would then take those aside who were open and eager to learn more, and then he would focus his time on these responsive few, the adopters. Then as he worked with these, going deeper in relationship and in teaching, we read that the gospel spread in those areas from that base of Prepared, Open People. They became his POPs.
This shows us 2 ways we can look for Persons of Peace in a new place.
1. Through Friendships in the community while living as a witness
2. Through Broad Spreading of the gospel
Let’s look at these two approaches:
1. Through Friendships in the community while living as a witness
– The key here to finding the ‘Persons of Peace’ is in relationships where we demonstrate Christlike character and love, and where we speak openly and naturally in those relationships of our faith and trust in God. If we fail to make it known that we are followers of Christ, then we might make good friendships, but we’re unlikely to find persons of peace. They need to know it is Christ who makes the difference.
LOVE THEM AND TELL THEM
When Jesus told his disciples what to do during their short-term missionary training trips (Matthew 10; Luke 9 and 10), he told them to heal the sick and preach the gospel.
Love them and tell them! In two of these passages, preaching the gospel comes first, and in one of these passages healing the sick comes first, but it is clear that the demonstration of God’s love and power through healing was to be accompanied by making it known that it was done in the name of Christ and for his kingdom. The credit for the healing was to be given to God, not to the disciples.
It's easy to go and live among them and love them without actually speaking the gospel of Christ. In that case the messenger gets the credit for the friendliness and kindness. This is why Jesus immediately told his disciples, not to rejoice in the miracles they had done while on mission, but to rejoice that they themselves were saved (Luke 10:20). Our Christlike character and kindness need to be accredited to the gospel of Christ.
As we continue to be openly Christ followers as we live in loving relationships, God will expose to us the people who He is preparing, and they will be drawn to us and to our message.
We don’t know who they will be, but loving acts done in Christ’s name will begin to show us who God’s POPs are.
They will not be turned off by our message.
2. Through Broad Spreading of the Gospel.
The disciples went to all the lost towns around Galilee with the gospel. They covered a lot of territory
looking for responsive people. They went into towns and villages and shared the gospel with a wide range of people, not knowing who would reject it and who would respond to it.
I mentioned in my first blog on Persons of Peace that, in one city, we spent 3 months going house to house sharing the Word before we came to a family who were ready to hear and receive Christ, and they immediately started helping us spread the Word. That taught me what I passed on to our new believers as we trained them in spreading God’s Word. As the church began to be established, I trained them in house to house witnessing in subdivisions. We took teams to parks and malls. We trained them to share at their schools and with their families and friends. I told them that we were likely to meet many people who weren’t interested, or who rejected our witness, or who may even be hostile. But I told them not to worry about that (Mt 10:19,26,28). Those weren’t the people we were looking for. We were out looking for the people God had already been preparing who are out there somewhere (Mt. 10:40ff). The ones we were looking for might be in the next house or the next street or the next subdivision. And sure enough, we met a lot of disinterest, and a little hostility, but eventually we found people who were waiting to hear who became part of God’s people and shared in our witness.
We can’t find our Persons of Peace unless we are willing to risk rejection
and hostility by sharing the gospel widely.
This is why in Matthew 10, Jesus spent most of his witness-training telling the disciples to expect that many would “not receive” them v:14, and that they were going out “among wolves” v:16, and they would suffer real “persecution” v:17ff, and “hatred” v:22, and violence v:28. But He ends the chapter reminding them that some will “receive” them along the way and will find eternal life.
Of course, we have to be wise as serpents (v:16) so we are not foolishly endangering ourselves or others around us, but at the same time, unless we are willing to speak up for Christ, we will never find our persons of peace who will help us bring the gospel into new communities.
PROMINENT PEOPLE
So, as we go into new areas, we are looking for these POPs who will bridge gaps into their networks of relationships, but we don’t know who they are in advance. We have to share our faith through love and through gospel witness in order to discover them. But, we have to be careful who we assume will be our bridge into the community.
We tend to think they need to be the highly influential, government officials, prominent businesspeople, well known athletes or musicians. And although it is true that such people, like Cornelius, can open wide doors to many people, but it’s also true that they can often be the least responsive unless God has specially prepared them, because they can also be the most self-reliant and self-focused people.
In our last city, we befriended someone who was probably the best known radio and TV announcer in the city and his wife who was a prominent Doctor there. After all the time we spent with them and having built a great relationship with them, they had no interest in the gospel we shared with them. They weren’t willing to step out of their traditional religion.
We tried to connect with and reach these kinds of people in hopes that they would open doors to their networks. We joined some of their clubs, and attended their parties if invited, and took up the sports and hobbies in which they were participating, all the while being unashamed of our walk with the Lord as followers of Christ. And a few came to Christ along the way and helped us reach their connections. Those who did were able to open up their workplace to us for Bible studies. One Military captain
who was a believer invited me to come and speak to his whole group of about 100 soldiers. One Christian lady was the regional director of the department of education
and opened the door for us to do weekly Bible studies in public schools with all the teachers from 5 different schools. One business woman
asked us to lead devotional times with her entire warehouse staff of about 30-40 people. So just a few such people can have a big impact.
But we often found this group to be the least responsive, maybe because they had the most to lose socially if they became Christians. So, while we built bridges with some socially influential people, most of our time was with the ordinary people of life, and this is where we found the most Persons of Peace, people who were ready to accept Christ and willing to be equipped to reach others.
UNEXPECTED PERSONS OF PEACE
Often we will be surprised
who God will send to connect us with the lost community. We are surprised and maybe shocked at some of the people Jesus chose to be His door openers.
• The poor shepherds
on the low end of social acceptability to introduce the birth of the King of Kings to Israel
• The Woman at the well
who was a marriage and moral failure who was used to lead the whole of the town of Samaria to faith
• The Gadarene Demoniac
who was used to prepare the entire region of the Decapolis for Christ
This shows us several things…
1. That socio-economic standards are not always the standards God uses in getting the gospel out.
2. That it really is the work of the sovereign God to lead us to such people.
3. And so, we really should pray that God will lead us to find what we can’t find on our own.
4. That often the best witnesses and gospel promoters are the ones who were the most broken without Christ.
The key
we found to discovering God’s persons of Peace was to bring the gospel to as many as possible, and then focus on those who seemed responsive to the message of Christ.
Then, we observed how they responded to Christ and to our encouragement to spread the Word to others. The ones who were quick to spread the Word to others and to gather others were the ones we wanted to focus our discipleship on in the long term. Some of these will be what we called “Super Spreaders.”
Examples of Super Spreaders:
• A troubled teenager
came to Christ, and within 3 months he told us that 15 of his classmates wanted to study the Bible with him. Could we help him?
• A 15 year old girl
from a very broken family came to Christ and immediately started witnessing for Christ at her school. Before long she was bringing friends and family to Christ.
• An outgoing businessman, who had recently lost his handicapped son, accepted Christ and gathered his friends and asked if I would come and teach them.
• A young lady who was already a young believer
in a new city we entered. She began connecting us with other Chinese young adults from her community. She had a quiet witness and the ability to connect us to others who she knew would be open.
Clearly these were prepared by God
to bring Christ into their networks. Sometimes their networks were family, sometimes friends, sometimes work environments, sometimes schools. Sometimes these people were existing believers with a heart for the lost. Sometimes they were newly changed by Christ. As we go out in Christ’s name, we share with many, and we disciple the responders and start training as many as we can in passing the gospel on. But then we will find those who are especially gifted or who have that special passion for reaching others. When we find these, it is important to take the time to disciple, equip and train them
and to demonstrate to them how to share the gospel and disciple others.
To Think about…
• Do you have any people in your context who are willing to pass on to others the things you share with them?
• Are you looking and praying for POPs as you go about your life and witness for Christ?
• Do you have ways of witnessing and discipling that would be easy to pass on to the “Super Spreaders” that God might bring your way?
• Do you pray that God will raise up more laborers from within your harvest field? Remember; Persons of Peace are Prepared by God. Ask Him for them, and ask Him to connect you with them.